Activity

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I spy with my little ear

Teaches the child to hear the separate sounds inside a word — the single strongest predictor of easy reading.

Ages
3–4, 4–5 years
Prep
No setup

Put this to work this week

A week gives you what to gather, one change at home and one thing to observe. It starts with four short questions.

Readiness signs

Signs to look for, not a checklist to pass.

  • Speaks in full sentences
  • Enjoys rhymes and silly words
  • Can name common objects

What to gather

Nothing. Three or four objects already in the room

How to present it

Show it slowly and in silence. Your hands are the lesson.

  1. 1Choose three objects with clearly different first sounds and put them in front of your child.
  2. 2Say: I spy with my little ear something beginning with mmm.
  3. 3Use the sound the letter makes, never its name.
  4. 4When it becomes easy, ask for the last sound, then the middle.

What to say — and what to avoid

Say

  • Something beginning with sss.
  • What sound does it start with?

Avoid

  • The letter S
  • Spell it

Control of error

There are only three objects, so the child can test each one aloud.

What to observe

Take these into the next cycle rather than judging the session.

  • Can your child isolate the first sound?
  • Do they start playing it with you unprompted?
  • Do they hear final sounds yet?

Simplify or extend

If it's too hard

Use two objects with very different sounds.

Once it's mastered

Move to final sounds, then to segmenting a whole short word.

Sources and review

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Reviewed by Nicole · August 2026
  • Montessori: The Science Behind the Genius Angeline Stoll Lillard. Chapter on literacy and phonemic awareness

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