Activity
Movement & fine motorUse what you own
The silence game
Deliberate stillness, which children experience as a challenge rather than a punishment, and which sharpens hearing for everything else.
- Ages
- 4–5, 5–6 years
- Prep
- No setup
Put this to work this week
A week gives you what to gather, one change at home and one thing to observe. It starts with four short questions.
Readiness signs
Signs to look for, not a checklist to pass.
- Can hold a position for a moment on request
- Enjoys a challenge
- Is not overtired
What to gather
Nothing at all
How to present it
Show it slowly and in silence. Your hands are the lesson.
- 1Sit down and become completely still yourself, including your hands. Say only: let us see how quiet we can be.
- 2Stay still for as long as it holds — thirty seconds is plenty at first.
- 3Afterwards, ask what they heard, and listen to the whole answer.
What to say — and what to avoid
Say
- Let us see how quiet we can be.
- What did you hear?
Avoid
- Be quiet
- You moved, you lose
Control of error
Your child hears their own movement in the silence, so nobody has to point it out.
What to observe
Take these into the next cycle rather than judging the session.
- Do they settle their hands and feet?
- Do they name sounds they had not noticed before?
- Do they ask to play it again?
Simplify or extend
If it's too hard
Try ten seconds, with your child sitting beside you.
Once it's mastered
Whisper each child's name from across the room and let them come silently.
Sources and review
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Reviewed by Nicole · August 2026
- The Discovery of the Child — Maria Montessori. On the silence lesson